It seems to me that a lot of vanilla folks with little to no knowledge of the kink community think of perversion like a lightswitch: either you’re kinky or you’re not. It makes sense – a lot of our popular media portrayals of BDSM conflate bondage with spanking, or put animal roleplay on the same plane as schoolgirl/teacher roleplay, or show sex workers…
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