It’s a well-known kink truism that many things you’ll try are nowhere near as scary, difficult, or upsetting as you’d imagined they would be. I have certainly found this to be the case. Getting slapped, or zapped, or stepped on: all of these things made me jitter with nerves before attempting them for the first time, but turned out to be not only less p…
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