I'm kinda asexual and that's very okay

On demisexuality, self-judgment, and the many reasons people have sex

I just finished reading Angela Chen’s excellent new book Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, & the Meaning of Sex. As a seminal asexuality text, it’s everything I could have hoped for – which is to say, among other things, that it made me ponder my own place on the asexuality spectrum.

If you don’t know, asexual people are people who don’…