Incels and other abhorrent loci of lust

Some fantasies just aren't meant to be fulfilled, and that's okay

Content note: This essay mentions rape and mass murder.

I have filled my head with useless information about “incels” – involuntary celibates, a movement of (mostly) young men who, in the dank depths of the internet, work and rework their sexual rejections into cause for venomous misogyny. I have read voraciously about their ideology, which they call “th…