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Simultaneous orgasms are overrated

Simultaneous orgasms are overrated

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Kate Sloan
May 06, 2021
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I’m reading the excellent book Straight: The Surprisingly Short History of Heterosexuality by Hanne Blank, and have arrived at the chapter about sex. Hallelujah.

One of the interesting lessons from this section of the book is that when the female orgasm went mainstream – i.e. when “marriage manuals” started instructing men to give a shit about more than …

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