What the hell is queer sex, anyway?

"To have successful queer sex is to mutually decide on pleasure and to try to inhabit it together." -Amber Stewart

Shannon Bell – feminist poli sci professor, philosophy genius, and erstwhile professional squirter – calls the G-spot the “female phallus.” Or sometimes she uses that term to refer to the entire upper wall of the vagina, a cluster of complicated nerves and erectile tissue rather than a discrete “spot.”

If we can sluice the cissexism off this idea (not al…