You don't have to do the thing to be the thing

Another revelation from my consistently incredible therapist

Recently I was telling my therapist about a classic struggle faced by introverted polyamorous people like me – and, I suppose, also by polyamorous people who are too busy to date, or who have limitations or marginalizations that make it harder for them to date, or who are just not in the mood to date at the moment, or who are… living through a global pa…